saya mengalami masalah...
macam mana nak wean off Abg Iman.. pada mereka yg dh lama jengah blog saya dan kenal saya.. saya masih menyusukan kedua ank saya sehingga sekarang, mereka berdua hanya minum susu ibu je tanpa susu formula.. mmg berterima kasih kepada kamu berdua sayang sbb memang tak beri peluang langsung ibu keluarkan duit utk beli susu formula... so ibu kamu ni mmg x tahu harga susu di kedai dan ade suatu ketika cuba la nak tgk.. rasa mcm nak terduduk sbb harga susu formula sgt la mahal... seyes saya tak mampu.. Alhamdulillah diberi rezki dan kekuatan tp masalah skrg mcm ane nak stopkan abg Iman ni yg dh nak masuk 3 tahun bulan Oktober ni.. haaaaii yoooo..
Ada yg bertanya kamu bekerja ke? ye, saya ibu yang bekerjaya.. penat? itu sudah pasti sbb saya juga seorg manusia biasa yg juga tidak sempurna dan keluh kesah itu pasti ada..
Ada yg bertanya kamu bekerja ke? ye, saya ibu yang bekerjaya.. penat? itu sudah pasti sbb saya juga seorg manusia biasa yg juga tidak sempurna dan keluh kesah itu pasti ada..
Penat dah ibu dia ni pujuk.. bila kita ckp skit dia pusing blk.. siap ckp "ibu tak kesian ke kat Iman.. kesian Iman tau ibu.." aduaaai la anak.. luluh la ati ibu kamu ni..
kadang2 dia ok.. dtg angin dia nak jugak.. mmg akui terlalu byk khasiat dan manfaat dari susu ibu ni.. bila dh mcm ni.. kita pon terdiam tgk dia.. ntah la abg Iman.. smp bila la kamu tu nak menyusu... besa dh kamu tu.. baring kt pangku ibu dh terkeluar kaki pjg dh abg Iman wehh...
ade org suruh letak itu la ini la.. amik ubat la..
hurmm.. mcm x smp ati pulak.. dh x smp ati tu sendri mau ingt la ibu Iman n Taqwa ye... semoga Abg Iman diberi petunjuk dlm masa terdekat ni supaya stop tau..
ni la ank teruna saya ni haaa
3 comments:
Salam dear... Heheh... Shaimaa' pun susukan Az-Zahraa sampai terlebih term. Akhirnya dapat juga stop sepenuhnya bila umur dia dah hampir 3 tahun... Alhamdulillah... and just like you, Shaimaa' tak sampai hati nak letak itu ini untuk stop kan dia. And for me, I believe in treating the child with all the respect he deserves. Firstly, I identified that I, me, myself yang berat hati jugak nak lepaskan sebab memang suka tatap muka dia bila menyusu badan... sejuk hati... tapi bila difikir-fikirkan, kena juga berhentikan sebab Sunnah nya begitu... Kalau tidak, dia tak boleh berdikari...and masa tu fikir its kind of zalim for a mother to continue doing something because tak sampai hati padahal kita tahu apa yang anak kita perlukan (I knew that I was facing 'separation anxiety') So, atas sebab tu, Shaimaa' kuatkan semangat untuk berhentikan... But the turning point was, satu malam tu masa menyusukan dia, Shaimaa' slow talk dengan dia... I told her that its very hard for me to stop breastfeeding her sebab I really like the bond that we share... but I know that I have to stop because its not good for her to breastfeed anymore... physically, mentally, emotionally & spiritually... masa cakap tu, air mata mencurah-curah because she was looking at me so intently... I told her the reason why we have to stop is because the milk is not good for her anymore, because she is growing. If she keeps breastfeeding, she will not be able to grow properly... That I HAVE to do it because I LOVE HER and I remember asking her to help me to let her grow, and I promised to make it easy for her...at last dia angguk and closed her eyes for the night... And for a few weeks, I gave special attention to her when she needs it because I want her to be sure that I love her just the same, or even more so sungguh pun dia tak boleh menyusu lagi dah... The reason why some children throw tantrum bila kena berhenti is because unconsciously, he wants to know if the mother still loves him. For example, everytime Az-Zahraa needs special attention, or everytime bagi dia susu botol, I would hug her and tell her how much I love her. And bila dia dah minum, walaupun sikit, I gave her a high-five and congratulate her...
But just to let you know, bukan terus-terus berhenti, for a few weeks siang dia minum susu Dutch Lady 1 2 3 perisa madu since rasa dia manis, dia suka... tapi bila tidur, dia menyusu badan... then bila dia nampak selesa dengan susu tepung tu, sebelum tidur, ajak dia buat susu untuk dia minum sebelum tidur, so dia excited lah sebab she 'owns' it. So from then on, alhamdulillah... dia full stop kat situ...
I don't know about abg Iman, but as for Az-Zahraa, she's visually stimulated. Bila dia nampak nipple, dia nak menyusu. So that's why Shaimaa' belikan botol susu Tommy Tippee-Closer To Nature because it resembles the mother's breast.
So, hope this helps... the key is to always remind him that you love him so much and that you're proud to see how much he has grown... InsyaaAllah... akan dipermudahkan...
Wsalam dear,
percaya atau tidak bila i bca ur comnt air mata ni bergenang.. n i feel it dear.. huwaaaa thanks a lot for ur sharing dear.. agreed bkn mudah nak pisahkan sbb bila dia bfeed kita rasa itu lah saat dan detik yg sgt bahagia kita dan dia.. kan.. saat yg sukar d gambarkan dgn kata2.. that's beautiful of bfeed
rosh pon yakin ank2 faham ape yg kita ckp wpon pd kita kdg2 mcm x percaya n doctor pon ade ckp just talk to our child cz dorg faham sbenanye lgi bila kita ckp berulang kali n berterusan.. yes dear i will try.. really appreaciate :D
org akn ckp n marah kenape share but mereka tak tahu ape itu tandem nursing but siapa kita utk terangkan tp mcm shaimaa' ckp dh smp masanye utk dia berdikari.. tp rosh la kdg2 x smp hati hehehe
but dear thanks again coz u give me jln n kena kuatkn hatikn.. btol kdg2 dia akn ckp skit je ibu skit je.. hehehe
hugs n love u dear :)
Alahai... nampak nye anak teruna awak tu memang ada bakat memujuk la tu... habis lah aweks2 mengekor bila besar nanti ^_^ dia tau pulak tu mana kelemahan ibu dia... biasa lah, kita ni kadang-kadang (eh... almost all the time kot) kalau anak buat muka kesian memang cair meleleh hati...
Anyway, macamana pun Shaimaa' doakan moga Abang Iman cepat berhenti. Kasi chance kat Wawa pulak ;p
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